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January 22, 2007
The Cure To Awaken The Activities In The Bedroom...

So many times you hear about married couples complaining there isn't enough sex in their life. Whether it be because of work, children, illness or any other obligation, people just don't seem to be getting enough to satisfy themselves. Well, everyone listen up because Dr. Berman has the answer to your problem...

MORE CHORES!!! I'm serious. I know it may sound crazy, but according to an article written by Dr. Berman, the more chores the man of the house does, the more sex he'll have. In the article "Men Who Do More Housework Have More Sex" (now that's a straight-to-the-point title! haha) Dr. Berman writes about a study done by pyschologist John Gottman over a period of 30 years that showed that "men who do more housework frequently have more and better quality sex." And isn't that what we all really want?
At first I was confused. I couldn't figure out how those two things could relate to/influence one another. But as I read on it all made perfect sense. According to Gottman's study helping with chores shows that you care about the responsibilities your spouse has and that you are willing to help them, which he says is a "powerful aprodisiac for many women." If you really think about it isn't that what usually happens? Your husband or wife helps you out with the things around the house you're stressing about, and all of the sudden you feel more like being intimate. You're less stressed out and your house is clean; who wouldn't be in the mood? And women, don't be deceived by the title of the article. Men aren't the only ones winning in this situation. You're getting help with whatever you need done, whether it be housework, stuff with the kids or maybe a project you're working on at work, and, let us remember, your husband isn't in that bed alone!
So women and men get out your cleaning gloves, fill a bucket with water and get to scrubbing those floors and that bathroom. Trust me, when the reward comes around you'll be happy you did!

Posted by Manda at January 22, 2007 01:57 PM


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